tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post7089419038476373013..comments2023-10-25T04:52:30.180-06:00Comments on Cicada Song: Internetiquette: The ChatCicadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14992280321382438701noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-77395353948776663992007-05-20T23:45:00.000-06:002007-05-20T23:45:00.000-06:00Update: She totally wasn't offended at all, actual...Update: She totally wasn't offended at all, actually. She emailed me back an hour later to say that it was no problem.Cicadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14992280321382438701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-17262638081640938422007-05-09T00:21:00.000-06:002007-05-09T00:21:00.000-06:00Yeah, she was probably offended, but so what? She'...Yeah, she was probably offended, but so what? She'll get over it. And hooray for you for being honest. The world needs it more than large gmail chat lists.Saule Cogneurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06539979684286065456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-34360977286588321452007-05-08T20:32:00.000-06:002007-05-08T20:32:00.000-06:00of course, to save the awkwardness of the moment i...of course, to save the awkwardness of the moment in the future, you could accept his/her invite, but then change their status to "never show in contacts" so that they just aren't on the list. that's what i do with all the people that have invited me but i never talk to.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11661369006278681094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-48315812513716858232007-05-08T13:55:00.000-06:002007-05-08T13:55:00.000-06:00I'm glad I'm not the uptight b!tch.I'm glad I'm not the uptight b!tch.The Holyoakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16180614277640237324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-5314989161780551072007-05-08T10:01:00.000-06:002007-05-08T10:01:00.000-06:00I respect your honesty. The other approach to the ...I respect your honesty. The other approach to the problem that works (for people who avoid confrontation at all costs) is to accept an unwanted invite, and then under your own preferences hide the persons name from your view. They are none the wiser, and you have less annoying pop-ups, and you have one more way to avoid unnecessary assertiveness ... And don't be surprised if you get a google chat invite from me soon.Nicholashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00691294126640773790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-41248933004224486072007-05-08T09:03:00.000-06:002007-05-08T09:03:00.000-06:00Hahaha! Well, I usually think honesty is the best ...Hahaha! Well, I usually think honesty is the best policy. At least you have it out on the table.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-32531590130288164612007-05-08T08:44:00.000-06:002007-05-08T08:44:00.000-06:00You can be so purple sometimes, Cicada.You can be so purple sometimes, Cicada.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04323568112711824064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-82176741091924547322007-05-07T21:43:00.000-06:002007-05-07T21:43:00.000-06:00Google talk. I wonder if it's a thing that only C...Google talk. I wonder if it's a thing that only COOL Utah people use? :) <BR/><BR/>Everyone I know (at school) still uses AIM. <BR/><BR/>Losers.N.F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15769369890212116831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-91846825054481655862007-05-07T21:09:00.000-06:002007-05-07T21:09:00.000-06:00Do we need to make YOU a tee-shirt?Do we need to make YOU a tee-shirt?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05647036680595683100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10937001.post-53090824594737021102007-05-07T17:56:00.000-06:002007-05-07T17:56:00.000-06:00Am now feeling all smug about myself because I'm o...Am now feeling all smug about myself because I'm on your chat list. And I think you're right--if you don't chat then what's the point of having one more name on the list?<BR/><BR/>Now maybe you should address the etiquette of blogrolls, and if it's possible to take people's names off without looking like, well, you know . . .Nemesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00110470182822628791noreply@blogger.com